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Silence is golden, learn to bite your tongue

Conversations between people

Many people feel uncomfortable with pauses and silences, which is why they often speak before they have thought things through well enough. To avoid being drawn into unwanted commitments by overzealous comments, you can learn to bite your tongue. You will realise that it is often better to say nothing or less.
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Perfectionism: perfect flowers
Perfectionism

Perfectionism as friend and foe at the same time

 

Perfectionism: perfect flowers

Striving for perfection seems to be a good thing on the surface, because perfectionism helps with planning, organising and achieving goals. However, perfectionism can have negative consequences. Teachers and parents of children with a tendency towards perfectionism should encourage the child but try to protect them from these negative effects.

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Quarrel among friends
Quarrel among friends

How to respond to passive aggressive silence

 

Quarrel among friends

As hurtful as words can be in an argument, it is often worse when the person you are arguing with completely shuts down and stops talking to you. This form of expressing a difference of opinion is called passive aggression. Not talking to each other certainly has the desired effect of making the other person angry, but it doesn't solve the problem. Read the tips on how to deal with your opponent's silence, open up the conversation and finally solve the problem.

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Drinking tea

How to drink tea properly

 

 

How to drink tea properly? In England, where black tea is traditionally drunk, proper tea-drinking etiquette reflects education, manners and social status. This status has less to do with one's individual economic status than with one's social background and thus sophistication. So if you want to appear cultured and upscale, you should learn to drink your tea properly.

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