For modern Westerners, Christmas means the myth of Father Christmas, who comes down the chimney and brings presents. He lives in the Arctic and travels around the world at Christmas time with a sleigh and flying reindeer. The reindeer, Santa's red and white suit and the mistletoe are all part of the myth surrounding Christmas. Many of these Christmas myths originally come from the cultures of the pagan natives and do not have much to do with Christianity.

Where do traditions come from around which our Christmas today revolves?

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Have you really messed up a situation and your parents are angry with you? Show them that you are sensible and mature enough and amaze them with an apology.

Ask them for a serious conversation in which you can talk about the situation. Communication is the most important thing in an interpersonal relationship, and this also applies to parents. So sit down with them and explain how you see the situation. This is the only way you can expect them to understand.

But it's not that easy to ask parents to apologise.
Take these tips to heart on how best to apologise to your parents.

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Being a vegetarian is not easy in a world of carnivores.

Meat-eating people usually know far too little about vegetarianism to allow themselves to pass judgement.

Yet they constantly admonish vegetarians that they get too few vitamins without meat. They think vegetarian food consists only of raw carrots and lettuce and have absolutely no understanding of the reasons why someone gives up meat.

In this article you will find the most common "arguments" of carnivores and how you can counter the argument.

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News from all over the world comes in many forms: on television, on the radio, in daily newspapers, on the internet, etc. Nowadays, it is good manners to know exactly about the latest news.
Are we really doing ourselves a favour? Perhaps our news addiction also has negative consequences for ourselves.
Why is news bad for health?
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Do you believe in life after death?

We all know that we will die at some point. The thought suggests itself what happens afterwards, when we no longer exist. Is there a form of life after death or is everything over with death?

Every day, about 150000 people die per day, that is 2 people per second. For 150,000 people, today is the last day of their lives. You could be one of them. How do you use your last day and what do you think about the possibility of life after death?

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   The handshake says a lot about the person doing it, at least in terms of first impressions. A handshake can be firm and decisive or weak and moist. At the same time...

Are you one of those people who have problem areas and just can't seem to lose the pounds? There is hope, just dress so that your problem areas don't show at all. The human eye is easily fooled, you just have to know what tricks to use.

Here are some tips, warnings and guides to help you look slimmer.

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"It's so difficult to meet new people."

You have probably heard this remark many times, perhaps even uttered it yourself.

What it actually means is, "I can't find a partner who suits me."

If you focus only on finding a partner, it is really difficult to meet someone. If you want to approach someone you like (in a partnership sense), the fear of a no literally ties your throat. But first you have to find someone you would want to approach in the first place. Therefore, it is important to increase our entire circle of acquaintances.

During the school years, most people find it easy to make new friends and the first boyfriend/girlfriend is usually someone they know from school. But when they finish school, their social environment changes drastically. They work from 9am to 5pm, then go home, watch TV and maybe go out with the same friends once a week. A routine creeps in that repeats itself week after week, month after month. The inhibition threshold becomes greater and greater and at some point they no longer dare to break out of this cycle. Because they feel safe in the routine.

But if you don't break out of the routine and consciously look for new acquaintances, you become lonely and socially alienated. How do you escape this routine? How can you learn to approach strangers?

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