It is quite normal to take other people as a role model and to wish to have the same successes as them. But you should never long to be someone else. Be proud of who you are and what you are, the real you. If you try to be someone else, you can only become dissatisfied and you damage your self-confidence.

Accept yourself as you are and learn to like yourself. Try to be the best version of your authentic self, because you are unique and only you have this combination of feelings, preferences and talents.

Your life would be much better if you focused less on your weaknesses and flaws, or on what you don't have. Instead, find your strengths and enjoy what you have. Don't allow negative experiences to influence your future in a bad way. 

Never forget that every human being, including your role models, has weaknesses and makes mistakes. This is part of life and they should only serve to learn from them.

Discover who you really are

If you always focus on your weaknesses, you limit your possibilities. Stop putting yourself down and discover the real you. When you allow yourself to be yourself, you can release your full potential and become the person you really are and want to be. 

Don't let your fear control your life

Unfortunately, many people develop fears, self-doubt and negative opinions of themselves. Before they start something, they already see a negative outcome in their inner eye. But actually it is just as easy to imagine a success and start with a positive feeling.

Someone who always imagines the worst possible outcome assumes their own failure and will then fail. Someone who starts with an optimistic attitude is more confident and therefore more successful.