{"id":5865,"date":"2013-12-12T09:38:54","date_gmt":"2013-12-12T08:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/neuropoolwp-com.beast-hosting.com\/2013\/12\/12\/streit-mit-dem-besten-freund-wie-rettet-man-die-freundschaft\/"},"modified":"2013-12-12T09:38:54","modified_gmt":"2013-12-12T08:38:54","slug":"streit-mit-dem-besten-freund-wie-rettet-man-die-freundschaft","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/reports\/society-2\/streit-mit-dem-besten-freund-wie-rettet-man-die-freundschaft.html","title":{"rendered":"Quarrelling with your best friend, how do you save your friendship?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5864\" src=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Gute-Freundschaft.jpg\" alt=\"Two friends at the reconciliation\" title=\"Good friendship\" width=\"450\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Gute-Freundschaft.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Gute-Freundschaft-300x212.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Arguing is part of social interaction. Even an occasional argument with your best friend is perfectly normal and can even strengthen the friendship, as long as the problem is solved and the situation is handled properly.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Disagreements and even heated arguments between best friends are not uncommon, because after all, they are two independent people with individual views. In order to deal properly with an argument in a friendship, the cause, i.e. the trigger for the argument, must be found. Sometimes you also have to face a less pleasant truth and accept criticism.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In a dispute, each party initially feels in the right. It is not always clear who is right or wrong, sometimes both parties are right and have to find a compromise in order to maintain the friendship. It is important to identify the cause of the dispute and to analyse specific problems as objectively as possible. You have to be able to admit to yourself at what point you yourself became responsible for the argument and not put all the blame on your friend.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Resolving a conflict in a good friendship is all about being honest with each other. Both must be able to give each other constructive criticism and accept it from the other. If you didn't like something that led to the argument, you should tell the other person honestly and give them the opportunity to explain their point of view. Real friends are honest with each other because they want to maintain and deepen the friendship.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 15px; font-size: 13px; line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; color: #858586;\">\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 15px; font-size: 13px; line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; color: #858586;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A really bad conflict can sometimes only be resolved with a little time. In order to calm tempers and have time to reflect, it is sometimes important not to see each other for a while. This is especially true if one of the friends is actively looking to resolve the conflict, but the other is offended and does not respond. The other person then needs some time to explore the problem with himself or herself before he or she is ready to talk openly. This passivity is not a sign that the other person is no longer interested in the friendship, but constantly chasing after them can repel them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If both friends are aware of what caused the conflict, they need to think about how the problem can be resolved. Both parties need to make an effort to solve the problem in the long term and for the future so that it doesn't come back to an argument again and again. A fair compromise is not always possible, sometimes someone has to give in for the sake of friendship, but a good friendship should be worth it.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing for maintaining a friendship is to forgive the other person for their mistakes. Quarrels often arise due to social pressure or stress in everyday life. Such things should not destroy a friendship.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arguing is part of social interaction. 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