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A relationship between two people is made up of dreams and values. Problems with each other do not automatically mean that you should end the relationship, rather it is about understanding the dynamics of love better in order to find the best way forward for yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Basically, it is said that after a major breach of trust, a relationship is over. However, it is not so easy to say in individual cases. As a third person, it is easy to say: \"I wouldn't put up with that\", but those who are in the situation themselves often react less rationally. If you find out that your partner has cheated on you, your first reaction is shock. In shock, one tries to deny the truth of the situation. When a previously respected and loved partner to whom one has devoted one's life suddenly turns out to be someone else than one thought, everyone must first learn to deal with themselves and the new situation. This is not only about infidelities; criminal behaviour or an addiction are also reasons to rethink a relationship and to examine its value.<\/p>\n
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Insight into the lives of other couples is limited. We know little about the feelings and thoughts of both partners in problematic phases, so we cannot take them as models for our own situation. There are always reasons to stay together despite a breach of trust. The obvious reasons are having a child together, religious conviction, financial situations or the opinion of the family. In reality, however, it is often their own inability to face the consequences of a drastic decision.<\/p>\n
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. The best relationships have normal flaws, but none that hurt the self-esteem of either partner. Maintaining a seemingly perfect relationship is certainly no reason to stay together despite a breach of trust. In a healthy relationship, no one needs to deceive the other, lie to themselves or give up their values.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Unfortunately, there are many relationships that are actually over, but neither partner finds the courage to end the relationship. After the long-term security of a relationship, one feels fear of being alone and shame from the failure. If there are children in the relationship, there are also feelings of guilt about exposing them to the trauma of the break-up. In a failed relationship, however, living in a home without honest affection and trust can be worse for all involved in the long run.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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After a breach of trust, there are only two ways to move forward. One is to leave the partner with all the consequences that go with it, try to get over it and start a new life. The other option is to maintain the relationship. The second, however, only makes sense if the partner convincingly demonstrates that he or she recognises his or her mistakes and changes. Promises are not enough for this, however; he must show it through deeds and feelings. As long as there is still a sense of mutual trust, it is worth giving the partner another chance.<\/p>\n
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You can tell that the partner is serious about wanting to change by, for example, seeking professional help, being open and honest and showing the partner that they are focused on maintaining the relationship. Violated trust can be gradually rebuilt through open discussions and agreements. However, the guilty partner must be aware that the next misstep is the end of the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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After a gross breach of trust, for example through an affair, the guilty party must be able to live with the fact that the partner will show a certain degree of mistrust until the end of the relationship. Despite all the effort and goodwill, it often unfortunately turns out that the guilty partner cannot cope with the hurt feelings, mistrust and bitterness of the other person and sooner or later the relationship ends after all.<\/p>\n
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In some cases, after reconciliation, the relationship can still grow and become better than before, as long as both partners are honest and discuss their problems and feelings with each other. When deciding whether or not the relationship has a future, the partner who has doubts needs to analyse their own desires and feelings carefully and be sure that they remain emotionally healthy. If one feels that one's mental health is suffering from the relationship under the given circumstances, one should take the step forward and break up to start a new life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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