{"id":5705,"date":"2013-08-13T10:45:15","date_gmt":"2013-08-13T08:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/neuropoolwp-com.beast-hosting.com\/2013\/08\/13\/ueberwinde-deine-unsicherheit\/"},"modified":"2013-08-13T10:45:15","modified_gmt":"2013-08-13T08:45:15","slug":"ueberwinde-deine-unsicherheit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/reports\/self-help\/ueberwinde-deine-unsicherheit.html","title":{"rendered":"Overcome your insecurity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5704\" src=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Unsicherheit.jpg\" alt=\"Uncertainty\" title=\"Uncertainty\" width=\"450\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Unsicherheit.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Unsicherheit-300x212.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Insecurity gets in your way everywhere. A lack of self-confidence influences every decision and every aspect of your life. Worse still, insecurity focuses your attention on the negative and doubles down on it. Inner insecurity and lack of self-confidence give people power over you, but the answer to your problems lies within you, you just need to know where to find it.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If your insecurity has its roots in your past, for example due to a lack of family support or inappropriate criticism, there is only one way forward for you. Forgive the people who have made your life difficult in the past and, above all, forgive yourself. This will allow you to look to the future and make a new start.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Everyone has their inner problems. The difference is that people with more self-awareness have found a way to rise above the past and get better. You have the power to do the same with yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If negative thoughts creep in that will hurt your self-confidence even more, replace them immediately with positive ones. Focus on what you have done well, no matter how unimportant it may seem. The very fact that you are not satisfied with your insecurities and are trying to improve yourself shows you your true inner strength. You deserve to have a better future and forget your bad experiences.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Even if you cannot control external circumstances, you have the power over how you deal with them. Insecurity grows through negative perceptions of a situation. You can build up your self-confidence by looking at the same situation in a positive light and learning from it. Give yourself time, because self-confidence has to be built up step by step. Don't be discouraged by small setbacks.<\/p>\n<p>To gradually build up your confidence, you need to step out of your comfort zone a little and do something that scares you. Once you have mastered the situation, you can be all the more proud of yourself and your win!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You have to learn and realise that the power lies within you. You can change and overcome your insecurities.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 15px; font-size: 13px; line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; color: #858586;\">\n<p>Insecure people give away their self-esteem to others. What other people think of you does not define who you are. Disassociate yourself from other people's opinions, especially those you will most likely never see again. What is important is not what others think of you, but what you think of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Insecurity draws your attention to your inner emotional life. Instead, try to focus on the things that bring you satisfaction and joy and be grateful for them. Also learn to give compliments to other people without feeling envious. Honest compliments give you a positive attitude. In this way, you will slowly build up your self-esteem and learn how valuable you are just the way you are.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unsicherheit legt dir \u00fcberall Steine in den Weg. Mangel an Selbstsicherheit beeinflusst jede Entscheidung und jeden Aspekt im Leben. Schlimmer noch, die Unsicherheit lenkt deine Aufmerksamkeit auf das Negative und verdoppelt sich dadurch mehr und mehr. Innere Unsicherheit und Mangel an Selbstvertrauen geben den Mitmenschen Macht \u00fcber dich, doch die Antwort auf deine Probleme liegt [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5704,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_thumbnail_id":["5704"],"_fgj2wp_old_id":["4019"],"rank_math_analytic_object_id":["488"],"rank_math_focus_keyword":["\u00dcberwinde deine unsicherheit"],"rank_math_internal_links_processed":["1"],"_trp_automatically_translated_slug_en_GB":["overcome-your-insecurity"]},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-selbsthilfe","entry","has-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5705\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5704"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}