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Children's lies are generally harmless and usually quite easy for adults to see through. It is completely normal for children to tell small lies, as it is part of the developmental process of their behaviour. They learn the effect of their lies and learn to judge the difference between truth and falsehood. As they grow up, their motives and the nature of their lies change.
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Toddlers simply lie because they don't want to be confronted with something unpleasant. It often happens that a toddler denies that they have to go to the toilet or have a full nappy because going to the toilet or the effort of changing a nappy interrupts their play and is simply undesirable. At this age, they are already learning that they can sometimes gain an advantage by telling small lies. However, they cannot yet understand that it is wrong to lie. It therefore makes little sense to punish a small child for telling a lie. You should also not try to convince the child of how things really are. This can actually have a negative effect. If a child breaks a cup, you should not insist that it was his fault, as this will teach him to deny the fault in the future. Instead, accept the broken cup as an inevitable fact and deal with the consequences without insisting that the child is to blame.<\/p>\n
Pre-school age is the time of imaginary friends, monsters and talking trees. Children learn their relationship to reality. The reason for children's imaginative inventions often stems from their wishful thinking. The imaginary friends can do things that the child itself cannot do or the child imagines the ideal world with talking plants and makes it its reality. This is why they insist on the reality of their fantasy. It is important to take the child's perspective when telling such lies. If the child is otherwise happy and has a normal relationship with those around them, there is no cause for concern and they will simply grow out of this phase. What usually seems completely incomprehensible to adults is the child's way of dealing with newly learnt information. Interestingly, children who watch little or no television seem to be more prone to such fantasies.<\/p>\n
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Schoolchildren are already able to deliberately lie to avoid a situation, as their social awareness and sensitivity to other people are already developing. Many children lie at this age so that a friend or sibling doesn't get into trouble. Another reason for a deliberate lie is the fear of disappointing parents or being punished. When children are put under pressure beyond their capabilities, they often resort to white lies to justify why they have \"failed\". Before the child is punished for lying, the reasons for the lie should be considered.<\/p>\n
Young teenagers are already starting to become more independent. This also means that they have their secrets. A child of 13 needs their privacy on the way to adulthood. Typical lies to avoid homework or other tasks are the order of the day. There is no point in forcing the child to tell the truth, but as parents you should let them feel the dissatisfaction of lying. This way, they get a negative result for their lies, but can decide for themselves whether to tell the truth next time. This is an important step in social development. Only when a child lies chronically do you need to investigate the reasons behind it. Reasons for lying include fear of failure, too much pressure or discovering how far you can get with a lie.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Die L\u00fcgen von Kindern sind im Allgemeinen harmlos und meist ziemlich leicht durchschaubar f\u00fcr den Erwachsenen. Es ist v\u00f6llig normal, wenn Kinder kleine L\u00fcgen erz\u00e4hlen, denn es geh\u00f6rt zum Entwicklungsprozess ihres Verhaltens. Sie lernen dadurch die Wirkung ihrer L\u00fcgen und lernen, den Unterschied zwischen Wahrheit und Unwahrheit abzusch\u00e4tzen. Mit dem Heranwachsen ver\u00e4ndern sich die Motive […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4911,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_thumbnail_id":["4911"],"_fgj2wp_old_id":["3579"],"rank_math_analytic_object_id":["688"],"rank_math_focus_keyword":["warum kinder l\u00fcgen und wie man damit umgehen sollte"],"rank_math_internal_links_processed":["1"],"_trp_automatically_translated_slug_en_GB":["why-children-lie-and-how-to-deal-with-it"]},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4912","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familie-und-kinder","entry","has-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4912","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4912"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4912\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4912"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4912"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4912"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}