{"id":3799,"date":"2011-12-23T11:40:06","date_gmt":"2011-12-23T10:40:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/neuropoolwp-com.beast-hosting.com\/2011\/12\/23\/liebe-eltern-so-erzieht-ihr-mich-zu-einem-guten-menschen\/"},"modified":"2011-12-23T11:40:06","modified_gmt":"2011-12-23T10:40:06","slug":"liebe-eltern-so-erzieht-ihr-mich-zu-einem-guten-menschen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/reports\/family-and-children\/liebe-eltern-so-erzieht-ihr-mich-zu-einem-guten-menschen.html","title":{"rendered":"Dear parents, this is how you raise me to be a good person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3798\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/Bitte-an-Eltern2.jpg\" alt=\"Request to parents\" width=\"450\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/Bitte-an-Eltern2.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/Bitte-an-Eltern2-300x212.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As your child, I need your guidance and help to become a good person. I want you to respect me and set a good example for me. Here are a few tips for you on how you should bring me up:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Don't fulfil my every wish. Don't give me everything I ask for, because sometimes I'm just testing how far I can go.<\/p>\n<p>Don't shout at me. I respect you more when you don't shout. And if you shout, I'll learn from you and I don't want that.<\/p>\n<p>Don't always give me orders. I'm happy to do what you want if you ask me nicely from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>Keep your word, good or bad. If you promise me a reward, give it to me. On the other hand, you must also punish me if I deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>Don't compare me with others. If you show me as a good example, another child will feel bad and like me less. If I am used as a bad example, I am the one who feels bad.<\/p>\n<p>Don't change your mind so often about what I should and shouldn't do. Make up your mind and stick to it.<\/p>\n<p>Give me the chance to find my own limits. If you always do everything for me, I'll never learn anything.<\/p>\n<p>Don't tell lies and don't ask me to lie for you either. It makes me feel bad and I lose faith in what you say.<\/p>\n<p>Don't force me to explain why I behaved badly. Sometimes I don't know myself.<\/p>\n<p>Admit your mistakes. This increases my respect for you and I also learn to admit my mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Treat me just as nicely as your friends. Even though we are family members, we can be cordial and friendly with each other.<\/p>\n<p>Do not ask me to do something that you yourselves do not exemplify. I learn from your words and your behaviour. So if you don't do something yourself, you can't expect me to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Don't tell me that you don't have time when I want to tell you about my problems. My problems seem small to you, but they are hugely important to me and I need your help and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>Tell me that you love me. Even if you don't feel the need to say it, I love to hear it and so I learn to say it to you.<\/p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As your child, I need your guidance and help to become a good person. I want you to respect me and set a good example for me. 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