{"id":137,"date":"2008-03-16T22:45:20","date_gmt":"2008-03-16T21:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/neuropoolwp-com.beast-hosting.com\/2008\/03\/16\/misshandlung-und-gewalttaetigkeit-in-beziehungen\/"},"modified":"2008-03-16T22:45:20","modified_gmt":"2008-03-16T21:45:20","slug":"misshandlung-und-gewalttaetigkeit-in-beziehungen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/reports\/love-and-partnership\/misshandlung-und-gewalttaetigkeit-in-beziehungen.html","title":{"rendered":"Abuse and violence in relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-136\" src=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/gewalt.jpg\" alt=\"A woman with a bruise\" title=\"Abuse and violence in relationships\" align=\"left\" border=\"0\" hspace=\"20\" vspace=\"20\" width=\"234\" height=\"234\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/gewalt.jpg 234w, https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/gewalt-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 234px) 100vw, 234px\" \/><br \/>Romantic relationships should be full of love, tenderness and respect. You should be happy when you are with your partner. If this is not the case, then there is something wrong with your relationship.<br \/>How do you recognise the signs at the beginning of a relationship and what should you do about them?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mental and physical abuse:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Abuse does not always mean violence. Manipulation and emotional pressure are also part of abuse. Your partner should never hit or even slap you. If this happens, you must show him or her that you will not accept violence in your life. If your partner reacts with a lack of understanding, you must leave him\/her immediately and find someone who will treat you with the decency and respect you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your partner hasn't physically abused you, pay attention to how he\/she makes you feel. A romantic relationship means that your partner is looking out for your emotional well-being and interests. Someone who berates or belittles you is not interested in your well-being. A partner who scares or threatens you is an individual who should be avoided at all costs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Abuse in teenage years:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An alarming number of young people experience and accept violent behaviour from a partner. This is physical, sexual and emotional abuse in equal measure. Teenagers' inexperience in relationships often makes them gullible and compliant. It is often also about control. According to a study, 25% of the young people surveyed said that they were put under pressure by their partners and kept away from their friends.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to recognise the signs:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People of all ages are haunted by loneliness and feelings that make them afraid of not finding a better mate. A history of failed relationships can tempt men and women to date anyone who is willing to be with them. This often tempts them to give up friends or family or hobbies under the pressure of a new partner.<\/p>\n<p>Excessive contact by email, text or phone is another sign of emotional abuse. A partner who controls and clings to you at every turn will only get worse the longer the relationship lasts if you let him\/her control you.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that someone has to prove that he\/she is worthy of your love and company before he\/she becomes part of your life. Any action that is uncomfortable or frightening for you should be carefully considered. Never sell yourself short or let anyone tell you that you deserve mistreatment in any way.<\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>No one deserves to be treated with anything other than dignity and respect. Even if it's not easy, it's better to be alone than with a partner who treats you without respect!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Romantische Beziehungen sollten voller Liebe, Z\u00e4rtlichkeit und Respekt sein. Du solltest gl\u00fccklich sein, wenn du mit deinem Partner zusammen bist. Ist das nicht der Fall, dann stimmt etwas mit eurer Beziehung nicht.Wie erkennt man die Anzeichen am Anfang einer Beziehung und was sollte man dagegen tun?<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":136,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_thumbnail_id":["136"],"_fgj2wp_old_id":["54"],"rank_math_focus_keyword":["misshandlung und gewaltt\u00e4tigkeit in beziehungen","misshandlung und gewaltt\u00e4tigkeit in beziehungen"],"rank_math_analytic_object_id":["3426"],"rank_math_internal_links_processed":["1"],"_trp_automatically_translated_slug_en_GB":["abuse-and-violence-in-relationships"]},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-liebe-und-partnerschaft","entry","has-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=137"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/136"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.neuropool.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}