No matter how good-looking they are, there are qualities in men that can only lead to unhappiness and tears in a lasting relationship. If you recognise these qualities in a man, you should beware of him.

 

The jealous one
At the beginning, he complains about small supposed flirtations. Jealousy, especially unfounded jealousy, increases the longer the relationship lasts. He sees you as his property, otherwise he would know that you are staying with him voluntarily and don't need to be kept in check by him.
The early signs of jealousy may be flattering, but he becomes more and more obsessed and eventually won't leave you alone at all.

The bully
The bully constantly wants to suppress and intimidate you. He wants to have the upper hand in the relationship. The typical bully pulls you along by the arm and sometimes grabs you so hard that it hurts. Every woman thinks that she would never be intimidated by a man, but when she is in love, she unfortunately puts up with far too much. As soon as a man treats you roughly or even hurts you, give him the boot. Dominance, violence and intimidation are no basis for a relationship.

The "busy person"
Of course, there are many men who actually work a lot and have very little free time. But among them there is always one who often doesn't have time for you because he has more than one iron in the fire. Beware if your man often cancels a date at short notice for flimsy reasons. It doesn't have to ring alarm bells, because he really may not have time, but you should keep an eye on the situation and not make excuses for him.

The willing
Some men tend to move into your flat after a few dates and take over your life. They don't care who the woman is as long as she mothers and provides for him. He quickly loses his job after moving into your flat. Now you are the provider and he puts up with you. Be careful if his things end up in your flat too quickly.

The deceived
He has just been dumped by his ex because she was seeing someone else. Now he vows to be careful in future so that it doesn't happen again. He will tend to watch you and falsely accuse you of having an affair. He may even ask you to give up your friends. The other reason to stay away from a newly cuckold is the fact that you are likely to be a quick replacement. He may want to show himself and his ex by finding a new girlfriend so quickly. So he might not be interested in you at all, but in some woman who strokes his wounded ego.

The narcissist
This man is jealous of everything and everyone you love. He doesn't like your dog and even has problems with your good relationship with your brother. He complains that you spend too much time with your best friend. A relationship with him is bound to end in conflict unless you are prepared to be completely submissive. If you don't like the fact that your dog has a close relationship with you, you will feel threatened by other things in your relationship.

The begrudger
He doesn't recognise your success and plays down everything you achieve. He describes your goals as "small". Professional success is talked down anyway and has nothing to do with the fact that you have earned and worked for your success. This man is a macho man of the first order and can't stand it when a woman is successful. You don't need to put up with him. If he can't handle it himself, let him go.

The man with the happy childhood
It's nice when a man says he had a happy childhood and that his parents did everything for him. But if he doesn't stop praising his family and his childhood to the skies, this should set off alarm bells. With his constant talking, he tries to convince himself more than you that his parents' house was really that great. At some point, this house of cards will collapse and your relationship will be buried under it.